Local Fundraiser for My Son’s Friend

Posted by on Dec 7, 2018 in Blog, Uncategorised

Usually we do not mix work and family issues.  But this one is important to a local family who have had their life turned upside-down.  My son’s friend, Spike, he’s known since Primary school.  A couple years ago they were roommates when they went on a school trip to Salamanca.  Worried about who he was going to be staying with, he assured me that Spike was a super nice kid- “Yeah, mum, he’s super nice.”  As 16 year old’s, they sometimes walk to their 6th Form College, BHASVIC, together.  Just over a week ago, on a rainy morning at around 8:15am, Spike was hit by a car while walking to class.  He was flown to Southampton and  is in an induced coma with a severe head trauma.  Spike has two sisters and his parents are with him, too.  At a time when we are worrying about whether we are putting up our Christmas tree too early or too late, his family are willing their son better.  Years ago I treated a woman whose child was hours from home being treated for cancer.  She spoke about the financial hardship of not being able to work but also about how life just stopped for them.  She told me how she would look out the hospital window and watch people taking their kids to school and thought, “I used to do that”.  I will always remember the sadness and isolation in her eyes when she shared that with me.  I do not know Spike’s parents.  I know who they are because we’ve done the same school run for many years and we live in the same neighborhood.  But my thoughts are with them every day and my heart breaks thinking of what they are going through.  And, if the Brighton community can ease their financial difficulty as the cost of staying with Spike in Southampton, I know they would be grateful.  Most of the donations to them have been in small increments as many have been donated by children who are donating their pocket money.  My son has worked a part-time job for years and came to me with £100 of rolled up notes to donate.  If you can, please give.  And send a healing thought to Spike. (GoFundMe for Spike)